For adults 35+ ready to date with intention

Check Your Dating Readiness
Before You Launch

Most people jump back into dating unprepared. They repeat the same mistakes. Get clarity before you get back out there.

Free 5-minute check • No credit card required

Designed for adults 35+
Private & encrypted
Complete at your pace
AI-Powered Co-Pilot

Everyone Skips the Preflight

Friends set you up. You meet someone at an event. But nobody asks if you're actually ready.

“Am I actually ready, or am I rushing?”

“What am I actually looking for this time?”

“How do I avoid repeating the same mistakes?”

Whether you're returning after divorce, loss, or a long break, you need more than hope and chemistry.
You need a plan.

Get Clear Before You Date

Preflight is your AI guide for dating readiness. We help you get clarity before you start, so you date with intention.

Check Your Readiness

Get an honest assessment of where you actually are, not where you think you should be.

Build Your Flight Plan

Define your non-negotiables, deal-breakers, and exactly what you need in a partner.

Spot the Patterns

Understand what went wrong before so you can avoid repeating it.

Active Radar

Evaluate potential matches against your specs. Get compatibility checks before you invest time.

How It Works

Three steps to dating with clarity

1
FREE

The Preflight Check

5-minute assessment gives you a Go / Caution / No-Go status and shows exactly where your readiness stands.

2

Preflight Complete

Four AI-guided conversations with your Co-Pilot to map your history, values, patterns, and destination.

3

Your Flight Plan

Receive your personalized profile: values, green flags, red flags, and a clear approach to dating.

Your Flight Plan

After completing Preflight, you'll have a tactical document that defines exactly what you're looking for:

  • Your core values and why they matter now
  • Non-negotiables and hard deal-breakers
  • Green flags specific to your needs
  • Red flags based on your patterns
  • Questions to ask on dates
  • Your personalized dating strategy
Flight Plan

Core Requirement

Emotional Availability

Someone present and engaged, not distracted by work or still processing their last relationship.

Green Flag

Asks thoughtful follow-up questions and remembers details

Pre-Date Question

“What does a typical Sunday look like for you?”

Sample preview • Your plan will be personalized

Premium Feature

Radar: Real-Time Scanning

Share what you know about someone—a screenshot, notes from a date, or what a friend told you. Radar checks them against your Flight Plan.

GO

Aligns with your specs. Green flags detected. Cleared to proceed.

CAUTION

Mixed signals. Some specs match, others need investigation. Proceed with awareness.

NO-GO

Conflicts with your deal-breakers or patterns. Recommend abort.

2 free scans per month • Unlimited with Radar Premium ($19/month)

Simple, Transparent Pricing

Start free. Invest in your flight plan when you're ready.

Preflight Check

$0

No credit card required

  • 5-minute readiness assessment
  • Go / Caution / No-Go status
  • Personalized insights report
  • Recommendations for next steps
Start Preflight Check
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Preflight Complete

$97

One-time payment

  • Everything in Preflight Check, plus:
  • 4 AI Co-Pilot guided sessions
  • Your complete Flight Plan (PDF)
  • Core values & non-negotiables
  • Green flags & red flags
  • Pre-date questions checklist
  • Personalized dating strategy
  • 2 free Radar scans per month
Start Free, Upgrade Later

7-day satisfaction guarantee

Most people complete Preflight Complete in one weekend.

Who This Is For

For adults who want to date with intention, not just date again.

After Loss

Ready to explore again, but want to understand your evolved needs before you start.

After Divorce

You've learned hard lessons. This time you want a clear plan, not just hope and chemistry.

After a Long Break

Out of the dating world for years. Time to define what you actually need now.

Tired of Patterns

You keep making the same mistakes. You want to understand why and finally break the cycle.

What People Are Saying

“I was dating based on gut feelings and kept making the same mistakes. Preflight gave me actual clarity. Now I know what I'm looking for and what to avoid.”

Mark, 48, divorced after 15 years

“After 25 years of marriage, I didn't know where to start. My Flight Plan showed me I wasn't looking for a replacement. I was looking for something completely different.”

Sarah, 52, widowed 2 years

Built for Adults Who Take Dating Seriously

Private & Secure

Your data is encrypted and never shared. Delete everything anytime from your dashboard.

Your Timeline

Start when you're ready. Pause and return anytime. No pressure, no expiration.

Guide, Not Therapist

We help you plan and prepare. For deeper emotional work, we recommend professional support.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this therapy?

No, and that's intentional. Therapists help you process emotions. We help you plan and prepare. If you need emotional support, we encourage working with a professional. We'll help you get clear on what you want.

How long does it take?

The free Preflight Check takes 5 minutes. Preflight Complete is about 60-90 minutes across four conversations. Most people finish in one sitting, but you can spread it across days if you prefer.

What if I get a “No-Go” status?

That's valuable intel. Better to know now than crash later. We'll show you exactly what's causing the No-Go and what would need to change before you're cleared. Many people find this clarity is worth the entire process.

Is my information private?

Yes. Your conversations are encrypted and never shared. You can delete all your data at any time. We don't sell your information or use it for advertising.

What's Radar?

Radar helps you evaluate potential matches. Share what you know about someone—a screenshot, notes after a date, or details from a friend. Radar checks them against your Flight Plan and gives you a compatibility assessment. You get 2 free scans monthly, or unlimited with Radar Premium.

Ready for Preflight?

5-minute check. Get your Go / Caution / No-Go status. No credit card, no commitment.

Start Preflight Check